Relationship Battles

The question is about the battle of the sexes when it comes to getting on with life after a split.I believe that a larger percentage of ladies who have been dumped by their men will get back with them for reasons they sometimes cannot explain.

The men on the other hand usually handle breakups with more ease depending mostly on the reasons for the breakup.A man would be affected more by it if he broke up with a lady because of infidelity,mainly because it's an insult to his ego that another man crossed his territory uninvited by him.

The lady who splits up with a man because of infidelity on his part will have a different mindset attached to it.She will think that she was inadequate in some way and from then on will work on her image because of that.

There are rarely ego problems involved with women as is the case with men.

The major factor that usually brings two people together most of the time is image.Well,a man may figure that he will boost his ego when felow men see him with some cutie by his side.For the women,though,the image they will be seeking from a man is usually attached to a part of them that has stored a certain image of a man as the ideal type.so they are bound to make some weird looking decisions.

When asked why they hooked up some weird character, a lady may say"I like his eyes" or ""voice".Behind all these reasons for a man,the lady usually has a subconcious image of the ideal man where her whole self will be intertwined with and become their sorce of identity,unlike men whom i consider as people who will love with mainly their ego in the relationship.

If a split were to occur,ladies are much more affected by it because the man whom they had tied their whole being is no longer.Their source of identity is gone,and most of them usually start to exhibit some side effects.

She will start to work on her personal image more to look like other women whom she deems are successful with their men.She will get a man to just hang her confusion and frustrations on.But she will always be yearning for the man who defined her to return.