Family Speak!

Spoilt last borns and and lone children in a house.By the time two people get married,they come into the union with all the personalities they have acquired throughout life.

It's parents who usually have the first say when it comes to grooming someones future wife or husband.It has generally been taken that last borns are spoilt,so dating a first born is recommended,with some truth in it of course!

So many first time parents really pet their kids for reasons i do not know.Everyone on this planet is capable of behaving in a mature manner or spoilt manner depending on how their grooming is done in childhood.

Most parents forget that a kid is just temporarily in their hands but the final destination is with someone else,then they have to start facing the results of their actions later on when a the grown-up kid they spoilt starts coming back to them to resolve the conflicts parents never taught them to face.

The minute a parent figures that everything a kid wants from them,the kid gets,then the circle of spoilage has started and these kids will expect the same petting from any other person who can show interest in them.

Much of the marital problems faced today emanates from the sort of relationship the people had with their parents,so actually that's where the buck stops,but not all the time though.

I do suggest that,when someone wants to date another,they should first of all get to learn what to expect by checking out how much spoilt they are.Just how do they interact with their family members?

One who is spoilt will still be overprotected and pampered everytime by family.They themselves will behave in a nagging manner wanting everything on a silver platter,which things they will proceed to misuse.