Lady Friends In Relationships

A woman's best friend is her girlfriend not her man!?Well is that debatable?Maybe.But when a lady is growing up,she yearns for a certain type of company from fellow ladies.This trend continues deep into adulthood.

The company she acquires will start to redefine her personality in an all round sense.While it is possible to take a man from the country,get him to the city and be sure that what his fellow men tell him will not change him outwardly too much,the same does not apply to ladies.

If you tried the same thing with a woman,you would see such a dramatic change in her you would not believe your eyes.If a man wants to tell what his lady is about to come up with,he should be able to understand the type of mentality her friends have,because she will acquire the same.

The sort of advice shared within the two sexes is different.While most men tend to focus on what can build a future when they share advice,most ladies share their sort of advice on immediate results.

Women will always want immediate solutions to their problems.The problem is that most ladies figure that men,don't understand them when they try to share with them their issues.Eventually,the man becomes the villain and attention is turned to what other ladies can advice her to do with her man.

Trouble here is that most of the ladies who are friends,also tend to envy each other alot and will give the wrong sort of advice to fellow ladies,just to break her up with her man.Strangely,women sometimes derive some pleasure out of snatching other ladies men!

So why does a lady still have fellow ladies as her best friends?Well,through life,they have always learnt everything from other women:Fashion sense,dating etiquette,cooking and all...The main thing here is that they don't realize when to learn things in a different way when a man is around.

Ladies then,would only be valuable to fellow ladies regarding matters other than her relationship with her man.Then they will be true friends.But if she includes her fellow friends'advice on how to operate with her man,then she will find out what venom fellow ladies can unleash with regard to this.Comment?