Gal stories


It seems that everytime i wake up,there's usually a surprise awaiting me in this neighbourhood of ours that's right next to the source of the Nile.

Today i got up to find my friend lamenting:Her sister had taken off with some man a whole day.Now i knew i had i consoling job to do at hand.

While i consoled the lady,i got curious and asked about the lady's history with such stuff.She told me it asn't the first time for the sister to do that.After talking with her more i think i figured out the root of the problem because herself she's dating a man old enough to be her father.....

As in many cases in life,everything lay in the past.These two ladies have been staying with their mother even if their father is still alive.Reason is that the father married another woman and that brought about the split between him and their mother.The two ladies lived mainly with their mother even as their father supported them materially.

I conclude that the lack of a father made these two ladies get to to those things.

There is usually a part of us that needs to be connected to our parents right from childhood,even when the relevant parent isn't there,that desire never leaves the person.It grows the more to haunt them later instead.

It is like a cup that's waiting to be filled from childhood even into adulthood.So,one of the sisters got hooked onto a man old enough to be her dad while the other cannot be convinced to leave the boyfriend alone,young as he may be.

Law provides that such a man found to do this to a schooling girl should be arrested.But what would it solve,really?I believe that issues have to be tackled from the roots.

The thing is that the lady finds a suitable replacement for the father that never was in the man who can comfortably fill up that slot in her life.

I used to wonder at ladies who despised young men and chased after older men for affairs.If it is not for money,then the reason that they themselves cannot explain to anyone about is the missin father in her life.

The things we see happening in our lives right now are just the fruits of what took place years ago.Who said "forget history"?History is basically ruling our lives.

I think that those who are happy,are they who overcome effects of their history.Oh my!This is scary!



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