Know your man
I got up to a crazy start to the day,my friend had just gotten dumped and was weeping plenty.One thing she kept saying throughout was "I thought i knew him..."I got to doing the hard job of consoling a weeping lady friend of mine.Then it hit me,how come she did not really know him as she thought she did?Let me try figure out....

Here are some ways in which a lady may judge how far she will go with a man in a relationship.These are things she will have to observe from him..

1.0.Loyalty/principles:This is done to determine whether he wants you just for sex,money or any other thing other than your very self.This will also prove to you how principled he is.

Get to move with your man into a company of your fellow lady friends(Fellow lady friends are always your stiffest competition for your man!!)make sure you gauge his reaction towards the teasing and flirting directed towards him.They will tease him!

If he loves you,he will behave uncomfortably and will be in a hurry to leave the place.Furthermore he will be hesitant to meet that lady again.Then you will know you have a dream partner.Never take it lightly when your man plays along and they establish their own sort of "friendly"thing.You may regret it.

2.0.Temper:This is one aspect of people which definitely will judge how much longer you will stick together with your partner.You may get a man for various reasons but please do check on this.You may live to regret it.Most druks are the culprits.Drug abusers generally are.

Testing this is to find out how fast he gets angry and to what degree he does.Just observe your man closely when you are in the midst of people..Let's see,how does he react when the waiter brings the wrong order or spills a bit of stuff on him or you...?One thing is;A man will always try to hide bad traits from his lady,but situations such a these do expose them.

Do not ignore the bursts of rage directed at other people because in a matter of time you will be the recipient.

3.0.Find out what he admires in you most:A man who admires only your physical beauty will stray when he figures that he has seen another who has a better body.

This you will find out by tactfully asking him intelligent questions...It may be something like "..honey,what two things do you appreciate most about me..?A man you amy go far with will like some inner qualities like,intelligence,honesty and pleease not just SEX.Just think out what to catch him on.

The other reason why you should know them is because you will need to polish and highlight them throughout the affair because these are the main lines of connection between the two of you.Neglect them and...Voila!

4.0.Maturity:Ever met someone who looks great,sharp,intelligent...first time?Well that was till they opened their mouths to speak and out came folly.A complete man has some qualities that define all complete men.If your man lacks any of these,please .....run!Ha!ha!

4.1Responsibility:Many things fall under this but i will breeze through:
The man has to be responsible for his actions.What would you think of somone who sires children left right and centre without footing their bills?Initially,if a man sires kids all over the place,then ask yourself where his principles are,and if you won't be the next victim.

How about when he sits a home like a dummy waiting on you to foot the bills?Don't get wrong here,there are times when a man has tried his bestand all has failed.Not this one.It's the type that will wait on your money to drink and live with you like you gave birth to them,Ouch!!

4.0.Vision:This quality is mixed with hard work which may sometimes sap alot of the time women need from their men.Sorry but it is required for the boat to keep moving.Think about it,don't you need someone who will not be shocked by the bills and all?Again,sometimes a man may have made a bad investment decision,am not talking about that.Am talking about the one who does not seem to plan for them when he can comfortably afford them.

I think i should stop there lest,the men hack me downHa!ha!What's your comment?